First let me say I didn’t think my simple post about Selena’s scribbles would create such depth in the comments. I truly wanted to step back and address where we are in this process right now, and how we approach writing and spelling at this time in our home. I think all the comments made very good points and appreciate all the insight given.
I believe right now Selena being only 4 years old, this is a time for exploration. While Selena has worked through the Kumon workbooks upper and lower case letters and the numbers, we never really used them as a formal curriculum. They were in her drawer for boredom breakers, or just for her to pull out when she felt like working in them. She worked in them over and over again. Selena’s job right now is to explore through her scribbles what she remembers and what she discovers in her abilities. I do not expect her to sit down at this age and focus on formal writing. I believe at this age there is a fine motor skill, eye to hand coordination that still needs to develop, this develops through play, scribbles, just being allowed to challenge ones self. Selena is always shown how to write a letter if she asks, but many times she just starts writing the squeals with excitement when she has made a particular letter, then the practice takes off she will write that letter for days. Some weeks it’s been H, or D just what ever letter she discovers she can write on her own.
Our approach to Spelling is the same way. The only word I have really worked hard on to know that Selena knows how to spell is her name. Other wise all the other words that Selena can spell, are words she has learned through her reading the word many times in our books, or games we have played. While we have worked our way through Progressive Phonics, and this year a different phonics program, Selena has picked up many of the letter blends. Right now she just writes. I will tell her how to spell a word if she asks, but then again at her age it is all about exploration. How do those letters sound in those words as she listens to herself say them out loud. Many times she is able to spell the word right away, other times she will say the word, write it or spell it out loud only to rethink herself, and say “No, that wasn’t right.” She then tries again. Here we go again there is a fine motor skill that she needs to allow to develop, a listening, processing, and getting it from her brain to the paper before her, or what ever she is writing it on.
I am pleased with how far she has come with her writing and spelling. We have some wonderful laughs when she realizes she has wrote her C on it’s side, and she is looking at me, saying, “No, that isn’t right.” but there is no pressure at this time, as she will eventually get that C standing like it should as that fine motor skill matures. We also get so many laughs and chuckles when Selena tries to spell a word on her own. Just like a while back she wrote “Hi Self” on the white board, only thing was it said HI SETFL, when Selena went back to read the words to me, she got the funniest look on her face when she realized what she wrote did not make the same sounds as what she wanted to write. I want her to make these mistakes, and discover why it isn’t right, again focusing on the motor skill that still needs to mature.
Do I see this as a sign that she will have troubles with spelling or with writing? No, not at all, especially since she is only 4. At this age, should we really expect perfectionism from the child? Again I say at this age no. I know once her fine motor skills mature, what she is doing and mastering now will just enhance her ability to pick up the writing and spelling lessons in her journey to learning. I want her to be able to look at her mistakes and make light of them, ask for my help if she just isn’t able to figure out what she did wrong, or be able to go back and just say “No, that is not right.” The rest will all fall into place when it is the right time for Selena.
I am linking this at Giggles and Crayons.